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"[tw] The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s..."

Sun, 02 Jun 2013 23:24:56 -0400

“[tw] The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness,”….”

- Lindy West, “Female ‘Purity’ Is Bullshit” (via goldenphoenixgirl)

"You are smart, talented, educated, conscientious, untainted by the mistakes and conventional wisdom..."

Sun, 02 Jun 2013 23:23:59 -0400

“You are smart, talented, educated, conscientious, untainted by the mistakes and conventional wisdom of the past. But you are also very annoying. Because there is a lot that you don’t know that you don’t know. Your parents are nodding. You’ve been annoying them for years. Why do you think they paid for college? So that you might finally, at long last, annoy someone else. And now your professors are nodding.”

- Jon Lovett’s commencement to Pitzer University (via kateoplis)

neachi: 超最強に凄い・笑える・癒し画像スレ『壮大な世界観を感じる画像』:哲学ニュースnwk

Sun, 02 Jun 2013 22:00:53 -0400

neachi:

超最強に凄い・笑える・癒し画像スレ『壮大な世界観を感じる画像』:哲学ニュースnwk

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Sun, 02 Jun 2013 22:00:29 -0400

"I want someone who is fierce and will love me until death and know that love is as strong as death,..."

Sun, 02 Jun 2013 21:57:53 -0400

“I want someone who is fierce and will love me until death and know that love is as strong as death, and be on my side for ever and ever. I want someone who will destroy and be destroyed by me. There are many forms of love and affection, some people can spend their whole lives together without knowing each other’s names. Naming is a difficult and time consuming process; it concerns essences, and it means power. But on the wild nights who can call you home? Only the one who knows your name. Romantic love has been diluted into paperback form and has sold thousands and millions of copies. Somewhere it is still in the original, written on tablets of stone.”

- Jeanette Winterson (via thepicassobug)

thefrogman: Owl Turd Comix by Shenanigansen [website |...

Tue, 28 May 2013 02:27:16 -0400

thefrogman:

Owl Turd Comix by Shenanigansen [website | twitter]

poweurful: steaktumblr: This is why you marry your best...

Mon, 27 May 2013 21:27:38 -0400

poweurful:

steaktumblr:

This is why you marry your best friend.

ugh. I have to reblog this. I am bound by a code.

this is my favourite picture on tumblr.

wilwheaton: upworthy: buzzfeedlgbt: Google Search Equates...

Mon, 27 May 2013 21:25:59 -0400

wilwheaton:

upworthy:

buzzfeedlgbt:

Google Search Equates Gayest With Worst

Sigh.

Goddammit.

Take it away, John Green:

lepetitmortpourmoi: Now I want to watch Friends but only the...

Mon, 27 May 2013 20:59:14 -0400

lepetitmortpourmoi:

Now I want to watch Friends but only the parts with Phoebe

cabinporn: Sod roof houses in Vik, Iceland. Photo by Gilles...

Fri, 24 May 2013 16:59:52 -0400

cabinporn:

Sod roof houses in Vik, Iceland. Photo by Gilles Baldet. The birdhouses are my favorite detail.

hella fucking structurally sound, would build again.

wearethecrossroads: Some nights I reread letters from long-departed lovers and think about how,...

Thu, 16 May 2013 01:06:09 -0400

wearethecrossroads:

Some nights I reread letters from long-departed lovers and think about how, even caught in the cresting flush and sway and eddy, when we pressed skin to skin the end of everything stirred fitfully in us both.

pickup line: i told my therapist about you

Thu, 16 May 2013 00:22:02 -0400

pickup line: i told my therapist about you

thisismymoon: wow hey eugenics

Thu, 16 May 2013 00:15:54 -0400

thisismymoon:

wow hey eugenics

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Sun, 12 May 2013 02:13:31 -0400

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Sat, 11 May 2013 18:42:04 -0400

humansofnewyork: “Pounce?” “It’s to remind me to be more...

Sat, 11 May 2013 18:40:24 -0400

humansofnewyork:

“Pounce?”

“It’s to remind me to be more aggressive.”

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Sat, 11 May 2013 18:40:04 -0400

FUCK you.

Sun, 05 May 2013 05:05:00 -0400

********* TRIGGER WARNING SEXUAL ASSAULT *********

Dearest piece of shit:

How dare you come onto campus? What are you even thinking?

You have been expelled from school for serial rape. This is on your record. In case you read this (which, given the twisted nature of your sociopathic character, you may), here is a little list of ways in which sexual assault may affect survivors:

Self-blame
Shame, guilt, or embarrassment
Anxiety, stress, or fear
Shock
Impaired memory, confusion, or disorientation
Anger, hostility, or aggression
Sexualized behaviors
Loss of sex drive or sexual dysfunction (not being able to perform sexual acts)
Interpersonal problems
Denial
Irritability
Erratic mood swings
Depression or despair
Social withdrawal
Sexual effects (ranging from avoidance to compulsive promiscuity)
Decreased energy and motivation
Numbing/apathy (detachment, loss of caring)
Restricted affect (reduced ability to express emotions)
Disturbed sleep, insomnia, or nightmares
Flashbacks or panic attacks
Headaches
Difficulty concentrating
Diminished interest in activities
Loss of self-esteem
Loss of security
Loss of appetite, eating problems/disorders, or gastrointestinal disturbance
Substance use and abuse (alcohol and other drugs) and other compulsive behaviors
Feeling powerless
Feeling uncomfortable being alone
OCD
Self-injury, self-mutilation (cutting, burning or otherwise hurting oneself), or substance abuse
Suicidal thoughts
Confusion of sex with love
Extreme dependency
Impaired ability to judge trustworthiness of others
Body memories
Feelings of alienation and isolation
Hyper-vigilance (always being “on your guard”)
Exaggerated startle response (jumpiness)
Hyper-arousal (exaggerated feelings or responses to stimuli)
Rewriting
PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder).

Though my knowledge of your sexual aggression is second-hand, my personal experience of your violence has finally, finally caught up with me. I finally understand what you did to me, and how much it changed my life. I think I know how you got to where you were - where those decisions made sense to you - how you lost control and then the fear and shame and self-loathing made accountability impossible. I can still see the look in your eyes when you first told me the truth. And I saw the fear and the desire for acceptance AND FELT SORRY FOR YOU. But you are not the fucking victim. Change your name, change your appearance, change your gender preference, try to create a new character - because the last one obviously didn’t work out so well. Know this: You will never escape from yourself.

You know you need help. Please seek it out. If not for the sake of others, then for yourself - the rest will naturally follow.

Or keep surrounding yourself with denial: take all the drugs you want, listen to “all of dat” hardstyle electro-house, surround yourself with those intentionally self-deluded friends, and do whatever your heart desires. Whatever remains of your heart, I guess. You know that you are sick and disturbed. Remember that this will catch up to you again. And next time, you won’t be so lucky - though you may not care about the pain, fear, shock, self-destruction you cause others, I know you care deeply about yourself. Try to imagine prison. State penitentiary. Years.

Are you scared, little boy? You should be.

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Sun, 05 May 2013 00:23:24 -0400

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